Wednesday, January 31, 2018

Undeveloped

Undeveloped
Carpenters' Point, Md
July 2016

I finally went with a digital camera in 2007.  So these rolls of film are at least 9 years old. They probably contains garden shots and family shots.  They wouldn't be from any major trip I took because I always got those rolls developed immediately so I could bring my photos to work and brag about my latest adventure.

I wonder why I did not get this film developed over four years ago, before I packed everything up and paid a company to move all my important belonging, only to let these things sit in a box in storage. What do you think: get them developed or throw them out?

Tuesday, January 30, 2018

Hanging With Jill Biden


Hanging With Jill Biden
Wilmington, DE
Fall 2015

She came to speak to a small group of women.  We got to ask questions which she answered graciously.  And then, when the event was over, she stood there and let every one of us snap a photo of us together. She was jovial, kind and even tempered. We weren't rushed and she spoke to each of us individually. It must have been so tiring for her.  She has been doing this for her husband, day in and day out for 30 long years.  I don't think I could be that pleasant for so damn long. More power to her.


Monday, January 29, 2018

1972


1972

Woodbine Avenue
Overbrook
Philadelphia, PA

My age: 16-17

School- Merion Mercy Academy, Merion Station, PA- 12th grade.  I was finally becoming a better student.  I had been at the bottom of my class but now I was making a bit more effort.

Books- in school, we were reading American literature for the first time and I liked it.  We read JD Salinger and F. Scott Fitzgerald and Our Town and Death of a Saleman and I finally found books that I wanted to read.

Work
  •  I was a babysitter for $1/hour.  It was a dreadful way to make a buck.
  •  I volunteered as a candy striper at Lankenau Hospital.
News Events- there was lots of turmoil in the world.
  • 11 Israel Athletes were murdered at the Munich Olympics. We watched in horror as these young men died right before our eyes.
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  • White House operatives are arrested for burglarizing the offices of the Democratic National Committee.  This was the beginning of the Watergate Scandal which dominated our news for several years.
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  • Hurricane Agnes wreaked havoc on in Pennsylvania, New York, Maryland and Virginia causing the death of 117.
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  • 16 survivors from plane crash survive and are rescued after practicing cannibalism.  I vaguely remember the story at this time.  But I read about it later and it must have been gruesome for these survivors to reach this decision.

  • Bobby Fischer beats Boris Spassky to become the World Chess Champion. We were all so proud of him and then years later, it turns out that Bobbie Fischer hates America.

  • The last US ground troops withdrawn from Vietnam. I thought this would be the end of conflict in that area.  But our focus just turned to Cambodia.

  • Bloody Sunday: 14 unarmed Catholic protesters are gunned down by the British Army.  My family supported the anger of the Irish people. In hindsight, we may not have fully understood the complexities of the situation.  But it was volatile between the two areas. 

  • The Equal Rights Amendment which provided for the legal equality of the sexes passed by the U.S. Senate. But it never went any further and we are still fighting this battle.

  • CND (Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament) organizes a series of demonstrations against nuclear arms.  This was probably the first issue that caught my political attention.

  • Antiwar demonstrations draw 100,000 demonstrators in US cities. It seemed as if they were demonstrating every day.

  • Palestinian hijackers hijack a Lufthansa jet. This was the beginning of the world’s negative views of Muslims.  They seemed ruthless to us.

  • Governor George Wallace is shot in an attempted assassination attempt by Arthur Bremer which leaves him paralyzed. Wallace was an ugly American.

  • Richard Nixon visited China which proved to benefit both countries tremendously.

  • Swimmer Mark Spitz won a record 7 gold medals in the Summer Olympics in Munich.

  • The Volkswagen Beetle becomes the most popular car ever sold. It was a favorite for poor college students. I always wanted one but my father told me I could never have one, "It's a movable hotel room for sex."
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  •  In India, Prime Minister Indira Gandhi was elected.  A woman was running the largest democratic country in the world.
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  •  US Presidential Election -Richard Nixon (R) defeated George McGovern (D)
Technology
·       Richard Nixon ordered the start for the space shuttle program. We were going to go back to the moon.
·       Apollo 16 landed on the moon so that the Lunar Rover could be tested.
·       Apollo 17 lands on the moon and the last men walked on the moon. By this time, it didn’t seem to be a big deal to walk on the moon.  We had done it so many times.
·       The first scientific hand-held calculator (HP-35) was released on the market. I, however, continued to use a slide rule up until I completed all my higher-level math courses (1974).

Popular Films
    The Godfather- wasn’t allowed to see it.
    Fiddler on the Roof- I think we went as a family to see this movie.
    Diamonds Are Forever- I don’t even remember this movie.
    What's Up, Doc? - wasn’t allowed to see it.
    Dirty Harry- wasn’t allowed to see it.
    The Last Picture Show- wasn’t allowed to see it.
    A Clockwork Orange- wasn’t allowed to see it.
    Cabaret- I thought Joel Grey was wonderfully creepy in this movie.

Musicians and songs

I started listening to WMMR, Rock Radio. This station played more rock and less pop.

For the Roses was my favorite album - Joni Mitchell

I liked lots of songs:
  •        ABBA- never liked them
  •       The Eagles- not a big fan but I never tell this to many people because it is almost sacrilegious
  •     John Lennon- sometimes it seemed as he was going off the deep end.
  •     Simon and Garfunkel-   I loved every song they released. The lyrics of their songs were used in lots of our English classes.
  •     Rod Stewart- Maggie May is a song I could hear every day.
  •     Don McLean with - American Pie - OMG, I hate this song.
  •     Michael Jackson –Ben- I think this was a song about a rat.
  •     Elton John- he had lots of hits that I liked.
  •     The Moody Blues
  •     David Bowie- This guy was weird for the time and he captured my attention.
  •     Led Zeppelin- They were too heavy metal for me.
Popular TV Programs
    Monty Python's Flying Circus- I didn’t get their humor.
    Sesame Street- My younger brother watched this new and bold approach to TV for kids.
    The Benny Hill Show- I thought it was weird and didn’t watch much of it.
    The Brady Bunch- I watched this show with interest.  Now I can’t imagine what was it that held my interest.
    Dad's Army- I don’t even remember this show.
    Hawaii Five-O- I didn’t watch this show.
    Here's Lucy- But this time, her show was old and not as funny as her earlier shows.


Travels- Beach Haven, NJ.  My parents rented a house near the beach for the month of August.

Family-
  • My grandfather was diagnosed with lung cancer.  He went through a round of grueling chemotherapy and radiation. We were all optimistic.
  •  We rented a house on Long Beach Island for the month of August.  My grandparents couldn’t come with us because of my grandfather’s treatment. And I missed them. 
  • My parents traveled a lot at this time due to my father's job.  They always hired a woman to stay with us.  One time, the woman was so old that we worried about how she could care for my two-year old brother.  My siblings and I took turns taking a day off school to stay  home and help this woman.
  • I don't have a car so I have to bum rides from friends, hitchhike or take the bus through life.
  • Kathy, my sister, and I joined the Columbia Record Club.  For $1, we got 12 free albums and committed to buy thousands more in the next three years.  We never bought any more records and I never understood how this record club ever made any money. Maybe some people fulfilled their obligation but I never did.




Sunday, January 28, 2018

Clean Water Every Damn Day


Clean Water
New Delhi
July 2004

I was in New Delhi when I took this photo in 2004. At this point in my travel history, I had been to lots of places that had limited water.  But this was the first time I had been to a major city and water was still scarce. Millions of people in this city do not have access to clean water. This woman was on her way to work and stopped for a drink of water.  Others were waiting their turn to fill up and be on their way.  And this spout would be tied up all day with one person after another, trying to manage with a meager amount of clean water.

 I was staying at the hotel, across the street.  My room was on the 14th floor and I had just had a warm shower and a western toilet that flushed.  But these people had nothing but this public spout of water.

When I brush my teeth, I think of this photo.  When I see water sprinkles on for hours at a time, I think of this photo. When I take a drink of water from the tap, I think of this photo. When I pass a car wash business, I think of this photo.  I am so grateful to have access to clean water every damn day of my life.

Saturday, January 27, 2018

Good Enough


Good Enough
Haiti Family Initiative Wellness Program
Jacmel, Haiti
Summer 2013

I am in Haiti and running a Women's Empowerment Group. The women, in my group, are not really interested in my interests in promoting women and making the world a better, safer brifghter,world for all women.  They are just hungry to have a place to congregate, make knotted bracelets, sit, sing and talk, and maybe, for now, that is good enough.

Friday, January 26, 2018