Tuesday, July 28, 2020

Bossy

Bossy
FB Posting
July 2020

I posted this comment on Fb and really expected lots of potential hilarious comments from my former faculty. They very kindly, sort of, disappointed me.


"I was just on a zoom call with some friends/colleagues and I indicated that some people consider me to be bossy. They laughed and wanted to know who would ever consider me to be bossy. I told them all the faculty of Springfield High School and Stroudsburg High School and the students and many of their parents, most of my friends, many of my acquaintances, my high school classmates and all of my family. Have I forgotten anyone?"

Yes, me.
Atifa Muntaha Aziz-   oh stop. She has never bossed us around. Initially we all thought that she'll be strict as we heard she was a high-school principal. However, we were proven wrong. She's extremely sweet, kind and caring. Love you, 
Bridget
❤

Yes, I love her too!
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 Atifa!!! Don't feed her ego too much!! We facilitators have to face the repercussions!🤣
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 I'm sorry for whatever you have been going through. I can only imagine 🥺😰
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 then maybe I'm the lucky one. 😳
Well either I'm glad! 😊
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 Thank you for feeling our "Bridgett pain!!!" HAHAHAHAHAHA!!
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 Shhhhhhhh, don't tell her, but I think Bridget is pretty great too. 
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 your secret is safe with me. 
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 Thanks so much. I knew I could count on you!
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  you’ve never seen me in my bossy element. 
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Bridge - You're a global pain in the arse!!


Thank you.


Shannon Wallace-Knell   At your service

Chrisy Sorrenti
mmm... I’m pretty sure when your job is to be the boss, you’re expected to be “bossy” 🤷🏼‍♀️

You made me laugh out loud. I’ve had lots of “bosses” in 35 years of teaching and I feel like you were the least bossy of my bosses. 

Robert Hunt  -  I don't know...... I kinda like a "no bullshit" personality myself!😊👍
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I remember some of your days at Springfield. Being older I would call it regimented not so much bossy. But back then? Definitely bossy, according to my 17 year old self 🤣🤣🤣



You bossy naw! Lol!

Sahar Islam-  I loved having you around! Didn't really find you bossy! 😅

Jessica Heath
So just a couple of people? Lol
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Anyone that is in charge is always perceived as bossy.

I would never say you were bossy, but you are NOT a pushover LOL what I admire about you

I wouldn't say your "bossy" but you are assertive. As a high school kid, I saw it as something to be challenged. But as an adult, it is a quality that I strive to emulate daily.

Bossiness is a good quality when you know what to do and want to get 'er done. Admirable when there is a vision.
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When you’re the boss....

I never saw bossy, I saw a leader who worked toward goals in a collaborative manner. Accent on leader. But you always had a line in the sand where students needs must be the driving force. If you weren't doing what was best for kids and couldn't change your behavior, you might think that Bridget was bossy. It was what I respected her most for.
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Fonda Akins-  Kathryn T Nicolella : 100%. Bridget E Kelly got things done and you have to respect that!
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Kathi Lewis-  You’re not bossy you just get things done!!❤️

Lori Bermudez
I found you to be kind and caring. Bossy? Maybe men said that?

Jacki Budicker VanGorden-  Lori Bermudez  The best in my time at SHS. Hands down. At least I didn't feel like I was in for a spanking from daddy.
§  Wow
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Bridget E Kelly-  this is creepy! Did you ever get spanked?
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Jacki Budicker VanGorden-  Faculty meetings left me "spanked by daddy." No other way to describe it. 
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You're not bossy, you just have better ideas! 😆😆You're perfect, just as you are. 👍😉
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Jane McCready
If bossy means being real, genuine and truthful to know what you are about, you are 100% Bossy and bad a$& in my book. You took the time to educate young people on the right way to protest, to know how to approach situations with tact and class. You will always be 100% high class to me;)
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Jill Potter
You should come to ocean city we are here with the kids until Wednesday! You can boss us around. 
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Joe Weaver
I don't know if you're bossy, but if you are, embrace it. Get a t-shirt made that says, "I boss because I care."

Underneath it all, you're just a big softy 🙂
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Bobby Ludwig
We love you!!

Eloise Laubach
Best principal Stroudsburg had.
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Joanne Murphy Pappalardo
You were a fun boss at Stbg. HS!
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Mike Thompson- You only bossed me around when you made me eat worms and nasty things with you for the thon 😂🤣💯
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Mike Thompson- You had your hands in your pocket and you laughed at me when I said no and you said you're doing it! 🤣
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Bridget E Kelly- Mike Thompson and did you do it?
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Mike ThompsonBridget E Kelly yeppers 😂
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 I can’t believe you let me boss you around and had you eat live worms. You are such a wimp!!!!
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it was for a good cause.. i don't mind being a wimp for that 💯
 ❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Always done with ❤️❣️ 🥰

I have nothing but respect for you. You went out on a limb when hiring me, and I will NEVER forget the faith you placed in me. You supported me and welcomed me. There were a few decisions you made that I may not have agreed with, but I never doubted that you listened before deciding. You were clearly the best Principal I had in my 16 years at Springfield.
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Charlotte Ostrander
Never thought of you as bossy!!!

Chris Arllen Reeder
I think you mentioned us all! Miss you. 
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Katherine DiSimoni
I would never be on a list like that!!!

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I would say very persuasive 😜
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o   Debbie Kolb
Miss you... i don't ever think you were bossy... you always made me smile..

Lisa Altemose
Remember some people confuse confidence and bossiness.... you have lots of confidence... 
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Amy Jenceleski
you aren't bossy you're just passionate 

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Tracy Matulevich
I never thought that. 💓💓💓

DevOn DiDonato
I guess bossy was one way to put it.
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Debbie Green
All these people sayIng you are not bossy and phrasing “bossy” in some flowery terms are lying. You can be bossy and passionate, bossy and funny, bossy and kind, etc., etc, but you are still bossy.
Bridget E Kelly-  Debbie Green spoken as a true friend
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Debbie Green-  Bridget E Kelly-  Yup! And enjoy every bit of your bossiness.
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Rosina Rucci
Tell them that there is nothing wrong with being Bossy ... above all if you’re a female ... it’s how we roll ... how we survive
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Chris Belton
If you were a man they'd call you decisive, clear and confident. Boss on, Bridget.
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Stephanie MChris BeltonI tend to get the word abrasive and that I should be nicer/sweeter. And then I get that I shouldn't be so flirty. Whatever you do is wrong, so be a boss ass lady!
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Chris Belton- Stephanie M exactly!
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It sounds like everyone is telling you that being bossy is a good thing! 😉

I love your bossyness when it comes to drinking samplers.

What’s more important being a little bossy can never hurt. I still see your bossyness as the initial spark for our exchange. If you hadn’t persuaded (in q bossy way) Kevin to go ahead and do it we might have never met. 
I miss you and your darn bossyness, Bridget. 
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I always remembered you as a good listener with good advice. 

Someone has mistaken your boundless intelligence, tactful assertiveness, entertaining stories, infectious laughter and boisterous joy as BOSSY? Certainly, they are spreading grievously false and slanderous information about you 



. I'm impressed that folks from so many different places that you have touched still care enough to comment. Keep doing what you are doing!
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Danielle Marino- I didn't find you to be bossy. You expected people to perform to their highest potential. That's not bossy. I thought you were fair and open minded to your students needs on a individual basis. At least, that was how you treated me throughout my time at SHS.

Bridget E KellyRemember the time I asked you to lie to Mr. Matteo?