Monday, October 31, 2016

Bridgetkellyinchina.blogspot.com


Bridgetkellyinchina.blogspot.com
Bridget Kelly in China blog
Henan Province, China
February 2012- present


Since 2012, I taught, on two occasions, at Sias University in Henan Provence, China. I was a facilitator for the World Academy for the Future of Women.  We teach young women how to be global leaders who focus on the UN Millennium Goal.  There is also a Men's Academy for the Future of Women.  This experience has been so rewarding to me that I continue to write about it on my blog.  I post current updates on my students and their successes. Feel free to take a look and see what these ambitious, eager, thoughtful people are doing to make this world a better place.

Sunday, October 30, 2016

My Mom Is Gay



My Mom Is Gay
Atlanta, Georgia
September 2015



I sitting at a bar with a married couple that I don’t know that well. We got talking about our parents and Dan tells me, “My mom is gay. I’m sure of it. She never told me she was gay and I’m sure she is. She may not even be aware of it. She lived in an age when you just couldn’t be gay. She’s 83 now and she still has a lot of gay friends.  They are always over the house.  One couple just got married.”

“So you’re telling me your dad know she was gay. Was that part of their marriage,” I ask trying not to nosy but really intrigued by this statement.

 “No, no. my dad left when I was two. They were dating and then she got pregnant. I think they were 18 and he didn’t hang around too long. So he was never really in the picture. But my mom, she raised me and there were always lots and lots of women around the house. They were all single but they all hung together. My dad was not part of my life. Maybe I saw three or four times in my lifetime. When I was in my 20s, I try to make amends with him. But that just wasn’t happening. So really I was just raised by lots of women.

His wife chimes in, “that’s why he’s so great today. That’s why he gets women’s issues because he was surrounded by so many strong women. He grew up with so many women.”


 He continues, “I wish my mom could it acknowledge that she’s gay but she can’t. I never bring it up with her but I always just assumed my mom was a lesbian. She didn’t have to tell me that. I just knew.”

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Saturday, October 29, 2016

I Shouldn't Admit to This, BUT.....


I Shouldn't Admit to This, BUT.....
Philadelphia, PA
May 2016


Shamefully, I have gotten in the very bad habit of taking photos while I am driving. Most of the time, when I see something interesting, I will pull over.  But I can't always do that, like when I took this picture.  I was making a right hand turn at 30th and South Street and it was right around rush hour.  Fortunately for me, that time of day causes traffic to move a little slower so I had time to set up this shoot.  

Now that I have confessed my bad behavior to you, maybe it's time to mend my ways.





Thursday, October 27, 2016

Massai Tribe




Massai Tribe
Tanzania
February 2016

They jump.  They jump a lot and really very high.  So when they asked me to join them in a little jumping fun, I had to decline.  I have arthritis in both of my knees and jumping is just too damn painful. And I have reached the age where it is best for me to keep both feet firmly planted on the ground at all times.

As they jumped, I foolishly attempted to participate by gyrating in a circular motion, hoping no one would notice that my feet, together or singular, were not leaving the ground.  They laughed at me.  They pointed at me. They attempted to shame me. But I didn't care. I wasn't jumping.







Wednesday, October 26, 2016

Well STATEd

Well STATEd
Highlights of my trips around the country
USA

I try to go to a different state every year.  In another year or so, I will have visited them all. Every state offers unique, interesting and beautiful sites.  Here are some highlights:

1.     Alabama- 1997- I spent the night in a college town with my niece.  The school mascot is a lion which is confined in a cage in the middle of campus.  After the bars close, college students stop by and throw cats in to the cage and watch the lion eat them.

2.     Alaska-2007- Glacier National Park and the Artic Circle are two places like nowhere else in our country; dog sledding, ice fishing, the Running of the Reindeer.

3.     Arizona- 1979- majestic deserts, warm winter days and intense sun are just a few of the things that call me to this state in the winter; 2018- the Grand Canyon, Glenn Canyon, Colorado River, Horseshoe Bend, Antelope Canyon, Petrified Forest, Sedona, Montezuma Castle, Desert Botantic Gardens

4.     Arkansas- 2010- Central High School made history as the first mandated desegregated high school in the state. The museum to highlight this event sits cattycorner to the school and re-creates moments that made me feel as if I was in the middle of this awful time in our history.

5.     California- 1983-SF, SD, SJ, LA: Redwood Forest, Fishermen’s Wharf, Crooked Road, Venice Beach

6.     Colorado- 2003- Left Handed Brewery, Telluride Bluegrass Festival, hot air balloon rides and the Rocky Mountains, Great Sand Dunes National Park, Pagosa Springs, Crested Butte

7.     Connecticut- I went to a Thanksgiving dinner and 37 people were there.  The host put all of the living room furniture in the dining room.  Then multiple tables were set up in the living room to accommodate everyone.  Four turkeys were served.

8.     Delaware- 1973-tax free shopping always draws me to this little state that started a nation; Bombay Hook Bird Sanctuary, Dogfish Brewery

9.     Florida- 1976- Key West and all its bad influences held my interest for the first time while I was still in college; Clearwater, Tampa, Cape Coral

10.  Georgia- 2005-peaches and old mansions, old plantations, beautiful old trees, the Jimmy Carter Center, seeing Carter in his church in Plains.

11.  Hawaii- to be seen

12.  Idaho- 2016- Craters of the Moon National Park, long road to nowhere.

13.  Illinois- 1996- Chicago, my kind of town. It’s hip.  I once spent St. Patrick’s Day there with a bunch of priests and we drank all day for free because everyone wanted to buy beers for the priests.  It was great.

14.  Indiana- 1974-Notre Dame University- my sister was one of the first women accepted to this university. So I went there to visit her.  Her bathroom had a urinal in the corner.

15.  Iowa- 2018- I has here during a blizzard so I only got to visit two breweries.

16.  Kansas- 1992-I took a group of high school students here for a Science Olympia contest. We won the state (PA) title which allowed us to compete at this level.  I didn’t understand most of what the kids discussed with each other.

17.  Kentucky- 2018- Lincoln's birthplace.

18.  Louisiana- 1976- New Orleans, Preservation Jazz Band and the Mardi Gras.

19.  Maine- 2003- Lobster Rolls; Windjammer Cruise; beautiful coastline; quaint neighborhoods,

20.  Maryland- Blue Crabs, Chesapeake Bay, Annapolis, Fels Point, Baltimore, American Visional Arts Museum, blue herons, kayaking, and historical Chestertown are just a few of the highlights of this state.

21.  Massachusetts- 1999- I once spent three days at the Sam Adams Brewery. It was time well spent.

22.  Michigan- 1980- I went to a Women’s Music Festival in Champagne.  I took the bus to get there and it took me two days/each way to travel there.

23.  Minnesota- 2018- crossed the Mississippi River, lots of farm lands, Karst Brewery.

24.  Mississippi- 2019

25.  Missouri- 1998- Branson, home of good, clean entertainment.

26.  Montana- 2016-  The Big Sky- OMG, that sky has a presence.

27.  Nebraska- 2010- All I saw were corn fields.  I went looking for the spring migration of the snow cranes but I never saw them.

28.  Nevada- 2014- The Circque du Soleil show “O” is worth the trip to Los Vegas.

29.  New Hampshire- 2009- I was travelling from PA to Nova Scotia and stopped in NH as a rest spot.  Long Trail Brewery occupied much of my time.

30.  New Jersey- 1962- Long Beach Island: my family owned a house on this island for 30 years.

31.  New Mexico- 2001-Santa Fe and 10,000 Waves Spa are two lovely paces to visit.

32.  New York- 1963- I went to the World’s Fair and saw the Pieta. Other things that hold my interest about this state include The Big Apple, Broadway shows, Time Square, Chinatown, Central Park and on and on.

33.  North Carolina- The Outer Banks offers easy, enjoyable bay kayaking.

34.  North Dakota- I went here in July, 2020 in the midst of covid.

35.  Ohio- 1976- I was there once for a Penn State vs Ohio State game. I didn’t enjoy myself.

36.  Oklahoma- 2010- I went on a road trip with my 12-year-old nephew and he made me go to a military museum right outside of Oklahoma City.  We saw personal belongings of Hitler’s which our soldiers stole from his estate at the end of the war.  In a very, very small way, I felt some vindication for his despicable acts.

37.  Oregon- the Pacific Drive is breathtaking. I recently attended the Northwest String Summit

38.  Pennsylvania- my home town- Philadelphia, State College, Penn State, Pittsburgh, Route #6, the Rathskeller, Lancaster, the Mann Music center, the Keswick theatre, Bryn Mawr Film Institute, South Street, the City Mural Program and my family are reasons enough to visit PA.

39.  Rhode Island- 1973- the mansions along the ocean cliffs are magnificent.

40.  South Carolina- 2003-Myrtle Beach on spring break is not the most pleasant time to visit but I did meet some locals who wanted to hang out and chat up some good conversation.

41.  South Dakota- 2012-  Cluster’s State Park and Mount Rushmore

42.  Tennessee- 1995- The Grand Old Opry, Beale Street, Dolly Parton's Stampede Dinner Theatre, Civil Rights Museum and Elvis Presley’s home are worth seeing.

43.  Texas- 1992- I once went to a high school competition at Rice University to watch scholastic scrimmage teams.  The campus and the competitors were impressive.  I also liked the Alamo.

44.  Utah- 2006- Moab National Park.  I traveled with my niece.  We took a jeep ride up and down those racks.  The ride was thrilling and I thought I was going to throw up.

46.  Virginia- Blue Ridge Mountains. My brother lives in central VA and I’ve visited them over 50 times.  I never tire of the beautiful scenery.

47.  Washington- 2007- beautiful downtown Seattle offers lots of places to sit and eat and people watch.  However, I spent my times in Olympia National Park and the San Juan Islands. 2017- I spent a week with my niece in Seattle.

48.  West Virginia- 1964- Black Water Falls- a family vacation on a ranch.  I felt as if I was in a different world.

49.  Wisconsin- 2018- lots of farm lands, not as many diary farms as I had expected.

50.  Wyoming- 2005- dog sledding in Jackson Hole; closed roads due to winter conditions.