Damn, in a few weeks I am going to be 70. How did that happen???? As I approach this big milestone, I continue to find a genuine satisfaction in my decision to remain single and childless, despite the constant societal pressures and unsolicited advice I’ve received over the years. So many thoughtless people have warned me of future regret, predicting loneliness and isolation in my old age. Yet, my life has been filled with love: love from friends, from family, and from the many connections I’ve fostered throughout my journey.
The decision to remain childless has allowed me the freedom to pursue my passions without the constraints of societal expectations. I’ve built a rich and fulfilling life, focusing on personal growth, travel, and the relationships I choose to nurture. The sense of independence has brought me peace and a deep sense of fulfillment, proving that fulfillment doesn’t require conformity.
I’ve experienced firsthand the joy that comes from a life led by choice, not obligation. While others may find happiness in parenthood or marriage, I’ve found that the love and connections I’ve cultivated have been more than enough to sustain me. As I approach the later years of life, I am not weighed down by regret. Instead, I feel a sense of pride in living authentically, embracing the love I’ve created for myself.
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