Showing posts with label sisters. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sisters. Show all posts

Wednesday, September 12, 2018

2010

2010
Springfield, PA and
Carpenter’s Point, MD

My age: 54- 55

Homes: 

  • I have two damn homes and it isn't twice the work to keep these places going.  It's three times the work. My little house in MD was a fun escape from work but once I didn't have a need to escape, it became burdensome. Managing two gardens, two yards, was a pain in the ass.
  • January 1- My furnace, in my Springfield house,  had a puff-back which ruined most of my belongings. It’s considered a fire and I was out of my house for two months during the restoration process.


work- I retired on my 55th birthday, July 9th.  What a great relief to just walk away. But then a panic set in as I thought about “what next?”  It was really an adjustment to go from a very busy, demanding job to all of this free time.  

Music- I work diligently to upload all of my CDs on to my laptop and ITunes account.  I then work to unload the CDs which are becoming more and more obsolete every day.  I have now worked on getting rid of my 45s, albums, 8-tracks, cassettes and CDs.  I am at the mercy of staying current in technology if I want to keep my music safe from an accidental delete.

Movies
Social Network- Facebook changed our world.
127 Hours- I also read this book and I would rather die than cut my arm off.
Alice In Wonderland- I loved this movie and have watched it several times since.
The King's Speech- we are all vulnerable in one way or another.
Harry Potter and the Deadly Hallow- I love this series of movies.
Winter's Bone- creepy
The Last Station- I vaguely remember this movie.
Letters to Juliet- this was a sweet movie.
180 degrees South- I vaguely remember this movie.
Eat, Pray, Love- the book was better.

Books: my reading chair was thrown out after my puff-back and that derailed me from my daily habit of reading.  I become a non-reader,  I did begin to listen to more audiobooks at this time.

TV
I lived with my sister and her family for two months while my house was restored (see below).  She got me hooked on Project Runway and The Office.

Travels
  • Bermuda- January- winter break
  • Key West, FL- January weekend
  • Colorado - spring break
  • Nebraska- spring break
  • Egypt- October
  • Road trip with Jameson- VA, TN, AR, OK, NM, TX- December- 9 days
News Events

  • Wiki Leaks filters news that we are all being followed by virtual Big Brother.
  • Haiti suffers a devastating earthquake. Three years later, I would travel there and the consequences of this quake are still evident everywhere.
  • A coal mine in Chile swallows up some coal miners and we all watched this horrible situation unfold. It was heartbreaking.
  • Iran pumps up its nuclear defiance. And the rest of the world sits in fear.
  • The USA finally ends its combat operations in Iraq.
  • BP spills millions of gallons of oil in to the Gulf of Mexico. They are fined billions of dollars but they never completely pay for this massive cleanup.
  • The Tea Party surfaces its ugly platform.
  • Obamacare is the controversy of the moment and every other moment from here on in.
  • The IPAD hits the market.  It will be two years before I buy one. Now,  I own two of them.
  • The Supreme Court upholds the dreadful Citizens United. Corporations and lobbyists have more say now than the citizens.
Family and Friends
  • January 1- My furnace had a puff-back which ruined most of my belongings. It’s considered a fire and I was out of my house for two months during the restoration process.
  • I lived with my sister, Patricia, and her family while my house was being restored.
  • My cousin lost her husband, the same day I had my puff-back.  Suddenly, my problem didn’t seem so bad.
  • My friend, Darcy, is diagnosed with uterine cancer.
  • First week of September -no school for me, I am retired now.  Since 1960, most years, this was the start of a new school year. to celebrate, I took a trip in October.  I never traveled during this time.
  • I put my house on the market which proved to be unproductive.
  • I had elective surgery in June.
  • I drove a 2003 Honda Element.

Tuesday, November 28, 2017

We Just Cant Say "I Don't Know"


We Just Can't Say "I Don't Know"
It's Genetic
July 4, 2017
Philadelphia, PA

I met up with my sister and her husband to go to see the fireworks.  We walked along Columbus Avenue and found a spot where others had gathers so we assumed this must be a good viewing spot.  We had never been to these fireworks before so we really weren't sure but a crowd had formed so this must be a good place.

As we settle in, the women to my right ask me if they are at a good spot to watch the fireworks.  I assure them that they have the best view available.  They are so pleased with my statement and I am so happy that they are happy.  But then I think to myself, "What make you so sure this is a good spot.  You've never been there and there is a 20 story building to your right.  What if the fireworks shoot over to the right  Then we are in the worse spot."   I keep this thought to myself.

Then I hear someone speak to my sister.  He tells her he is with his family and they hope they picked a good spot.  "Do you think we are at a good spot,?" he asked her. Unflinching, Sharon informs him with  the voice of authority, "You have picked the best spot to watch the fireworks.  We are going to have the best view."  I couldn't believe what I was hearing. She had never been to these fireworks before.  How did she know?

Then it dawned on me. We must have a genetic disposition that does not allow us to say, "I don't know."  We just can't say it, no matter what.

Philadelphia, PA

Monday, May 8, 2017

Penguin Sisters


Penguin Sisters
Wendell Sea
Antarctica
December 2007


This photo always reminds me of my sisters because this shot epitomizes our relationship.  They are a force of three and I am always lagging behind them.  They call to me to catch and get in line but I can't.  I just can't.