I've lived alone for 45 years and I can't imagine my life any other way. Here are some things I have learned about this experience;
- Total Freedom- I can do what I want, when I want. There is no need to consult anyone about music volume, dinner plans, or when to go to bed.
- I have full control over my space. I decorate how I like, organize my stuff my way, and my home reflect my personality.
- The peace & quiet is a gift. There are no surprise visitors, no roommates barging in, just my own vibe.
- It taught me self reliance. I've become more resourceful in all areas: fixing things, handling bills, cooking for one, and making decisions solo.
- All the costs are on me. Rent, utilities, groceries, and random home expenses all come out of my pocket. Housework is all on me. Every dish, every crumb, every piece of laundry is my responsibility.
- Living alone forced me to grow emotionally, practically, and financially. I am so comfortable being my own company.
- Leftovers are all mine. I don't have to worry about someone eating that last piece of pizza. in the refrigerator.
- I can listen to the same song, on my playlist, 20 times in a row and no one is yelling at me to pick another song.
- I have so much damn privacy and I love it. There is no need to explain my day, to anyone. My space, my rules, my sanctuary.
- I have gotten so comfortable with solitude. Living alone has taught me how to enjoy my own company. And some days, I just cant wait to get home and enjoy this solitude.
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