In the Halls of Montezuma
Our Home in Philadelphia, PA
Our Home in Philadelphia, PA
Philadelphia, PA
1965
I decided to ask my siblings to write their stories of our
childhood. Our mother had just
died. Her parents were immigrants and we
had very little information about their childhood. My father’s family was dying off. And so was all of our oral history.
“If we all write just 10 stories each, we could have 70 of
them”, I tell them, hoping to ignite some excitement around my very clever idea.
They show absolutely no interest in my request. They weren’t just indifferent to the project. They thought it as stupid.
“You don’t even have to type the stories, I will do that for
you and I’ll do all of the formatting. I will put a book together for all of us
to have,” I pleaded with them. They
continue to be unmoved by my request.
“It must be nice to have no kids. When you don’t have kids, you have time to
waste on stuff like this, said one sister.
I never got any takers to write even one lousy story. But occasionally, one of them would call me
and say, "hey are you still writing that
stupid family book? I have a story you
could write, remember when…” and then the story would be retold to me no matter
how much I pleaded with them to write it down.
They didn’t. Not one of them. But consistently a few of them remembered one
particular story.
It was 1965; our uncle, an officer in the Marine Corp, was serving
a tour of duty in Viet Nam. We worried about him every day. We prayed for him. And every Friday, we added his name to the
long list of servicemen who got letters from the students in our grade school.
At the same time, someone gave my father a cheap,
play-by-numbers, electronic, squeaky keyboard.
We put it in the hallway and we all attempted to learn how
to play it. I still remember Mary Had A
Little Lamb: 321 2333 222 333 321 2333 322321. Sometimes I would get the
threes and the twos mixed up. That
really messed up the flow of the song.
We learned Happy Birthday and Twinkle, Twinkle and Oh Susanna. We all seemed to have a particular favorite. However, we all felt a great need to learn the marine’s anthem, In The Halls of Montezuma. We played that song too frequently and too poorly. It was dreadful but we played it with a thought that this act alone would bring our uncle home safely.
As my siblings reflected on this story, they all remembered
how dreadful the others played. Individually, they all bragged they were the best. But that is a ridiculous thought because,
really, truly, I was the best.